by Cortney Litwin
Could your sex
life use some pizzazz? A little more passion, intimacy, variety
or frequency? Each astrological sign has its talents and
pitfalls in the bedroom. Your Sun (individuality) and Mars
(sexual needs/desires) not only reveal how you can achieve
sexual fulfillment, but reveal potential stumbling blocks as
well.
So if you’d
like to put some sizzle into your sex life, read your Sun and
Mars signs below.
Aries:
With lusty Mars as your ruler, your passion burns brightly, but
it may burn out too quickly if you don’t take your time in bed.
Also, achieving true intimacy may require you to ignore the
thrill of the chase with someone new. Being sensitive to your
partner’s needs by tuning into their responses will heighten
your enjoyment as well.
Taurus:
You have a deep well of sensuality, but still waters will
stagnate unless stirred by new energy. That’s a nice way of
saying you can be lazy in bed. Sameness can be comfortable to a
Bull but boring to their partner. Strive to energize your sex
life by trying new techniques and locales on occasion, and
initiating some spontaneous romps.
Gemini:
As a mutable Air sign, you’re the master of sexual versatility.
But you’ll need to get out of your brain and into your body to
enjoy a deeper level of sexuality. Being too visually oriented
can also block your instincts. Turning off the flow of thoughts
will awaken your body’s responses and connect you with your
partner.
Cancer:
Sex and nurturing are joined together, which makes you an
exceptionally caring lover. This may cast you in the role of
mother or father, however, which will give you control but may
hinder your enjoyment in bed. Releasing control and letting your
lusty side out to play will help you achieve sexual equality and
satisfaction.
Leo:
Your fire brings out the passion in nearly everyone you touch.
You like to show off your pleasuring skills, much to the delight
of your partner. However, your strong will, flair for the
dramatic and need for attention can be overwhelming to quieter
souls. Enjoying the subtler elements of foreplay will deepen the
intimacy in your relationship.
Virgo:
Because you notice every detail, you’re adept at knowing what
pleases your partner. But you may need to ignore the
less-than-perfect circumstances surrounding some bedroom romps.
It’s okay to enjoy a sexy tryst if the dishes aren’t done or
your e-mails aren’t answered. Overanalyzing your sexual needs
and desires will cut off your feelings as well.
Libra:
As a thoughtful lover who’s willing to please, you enjoy
satisfying your partner as much as you like being pleasured. But
your need to be balanced and ladylike (or gentlemanly) at all
times may make it difficult for you to let your instincts take
over. Quieting your mind and giving yourself permission to get
naughty will awaken your sexuality.
Scorpio:
Getting naughty isn’t a problem for you because you’re naturally
attuned to sexual desire and attraction. Your intensity makes
you hard to resist, but this same intensity can scare you away
from true intimacy. Feeling vulnerable and out of control are
difficult for you, but letting go of emotional boundaries will
deepen the intimacy in your relationship.
Sagittarius:
As a fun-loving Fire sign, you’re game for just about anything.
Your humor, high energy and playfulness heighten the enjoyment
between you and your lover. However, staying sexually interested
during the quieter, intimate moments of daily life can be
challenging. Focusing on the deeper emotional/sexual connection
in your relationship is your mission.
Capricorn:
As a sensual Earth sign ruled by Saturn, your staying power
between the sheets is legendary. However, your natural sense of
responsibility and need for control can make it difficult to
fully enjoy yourself, at least until you’re older. Then all
inhibitions will fall away, and you’ll enjoy sex well past the
time your peers were carousing in bed.
Aquarius:
Your willingness to experiment in the boudoir means your sex
life will never be boring. Expressing your deeper needs and
desires to your lover is your challenge. With Uranus as your
ruler, you can appear detached sexually, which means you may
attract an emotionally superficial relationship. Coming from the
heart will help you manifest a deeper connection.
Pisces:
Your exceptional intuition attunes you to the sexual needs of
your lover. You’re not adverse to a bit of fantasy, either.
However, your passive nature may find it difficult to initiate
sex. And your otherworldliness can make you out of touch with
your body. Focusing on the physical, which includes eating,
touching and exercising, will strengthen your sensuality.